Who Is Steve Mayeda
A few years ago I noticed there were a few things missing from my life. It wasn't that I was unsuccessful, it wasn't that I was completely unhappy, it wasn't even that I hadn't had great experiences in my life.
The thing with me, is that I had worked as a photographer, I had played music, I had a rich life, but I still felt like a wimp when I saw a woman I found attractive. I had no idea what to say to them. I felt inadequate and afraid, I felt that although the life I lived was full in many ways, I had nothing that was attractive to show them.
On the Road to the21convention – Last Chance at Total Immersion teaching
Monday, 19th July 2010
Last Chance at Total Immersion Orlando
A few of my buddies are coming on board to help on this workshop
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Here’s the Schedule for Total Immersion Orlando
5pm – 7pm
Restaurant
Waitresses and Hired Guns – We begin with a healthy feast and hot
waitresses.
We will go over our goals and immediately start implementing some
of the exercises I assign you.
7pm – 8:00pm
We hit the streets to continue on with the assignments I give you
you. Your assignments will all have to do with you interacting
with women…women that you’re attracted to.
8:00pm – 930
Breaktime
I don’t want much here, but you get 90mins to refresh, rest your
head and get ready for the night.
9:30pm – 10:30pm
Keys to the Club
We hit the scene. Now some people teach social proof as something
where you learn to be ‘cool’ in the club for one night – I teach it
so that venue works for you. Whether you are at a cafe, your
favorite diner, or your city’s premiere club you should have that
place work for you. What you’re going to be cultivating from
9pm-10:30pm is just that.
This will set the stage for us all weekend.
10:30pm – 12:30am
Approach – Body Language
This is time to Approach, most people’s workshops emphasize this
time only…and they don’t even do it right. In this time we will
go over the body language and the social structure of a group (not
your typical ‘group theory’, but through specific techniques you
will learn how to make a group of girls comply with you
immediately). As everyone tells me, my form of Body Language will
redefine how you interact with people. This will be the most
explosive stuff you learn.
12:30am – 2am
Escalation
Because this is the first night we will be taking baby steps here.
But the reason why i have 1 in 3 of my clients get laid on my
workshops is because of how I approach Logistics. In total
Immersion we will take this window of opportunity and maximize it.
We will begin our long road to escalation.
Saturday July 24
Goals
- Get Sexual in our encounters within 10mins
-Execute our Seduction Body Language in both Day and Night
5pm – 7pm
Restaurant/Social Proof
As we fill up for another long night we talk to some of Orlando’s
finest. Waitresses and bartenders. However this time we will mix
in some of our previous night’s training in getting to know the
staff and take it to a new level here. Where we eat is going to be
one of the clubs we hit later. In Total Immersion Orlando you will
learn to go from being an average Joe to a Pimp within the venues
we go to.
7pm – 8:00pm
We hit the Streets! We take our Dinner Assignments and we talk to
the women in Orlando live out there infield. Believe me I take a
different approach to this. I am not going to tell you to run down
girls on the street, but I am going to tell you how to get yourself
in a situation where you can control it and Seduce.
8:00pm – 930pm
Breaktime
I don’t want much here, but you get 90mins to refresh, rest your
head and get ready for the night.
9:30pm -10:30pm
Hired Guns
Since we should have some amount of momentum here, we are going to
take our Social Proof we have cultivated and turn it on the Hired
Guns. This mean you will be back on the Bartenders and Waitresses
within the Venues we will be at. You guys are going to be getting
comp’d drinks and cutting lines at the end of the night.
10:30pm – 12:30pm
Approach – Playful and Sexual
Here we are going to up the anti here. You are gonna be doing your
Approaches here, but using Body Language techniques you are going
to be getting Sexual. This will be fun and you’re going to shine
here. You will see and feel how good it can be to be playful,
flirty and down right sexy. This is one of the biggest gifts I can
give you guys out there, learning what it is like to feel sexual.
12:30am – 2am
Escalation and Logistics
I don’t take it easy on guys that want to improve their lives. If
you take this seriously then you need to push yourself. During the
witching hour here we are going to push for the close. If you’re
on this workshop sexuality will be exuding from you at this point,
now you have got to learn how to guide it and control it.
Escalating and working logistics will be what you focus on.
Sunday July 25th
Goals -
- No problems with showing sexuality in any interaction
Building your road map
5pm – 7pm
Restaurant
This is going to get interesting. We are going to build your road
map with the help of not only myself, but with the women you
interact with. Your assignment will be to do just that. We are
going to talk to women we are going to get sexual and we are going
to learn from them
7pm – 8pm
Hit the Streets
We are going to continue in Downtown Orlando on our assignment.
Remember this workshop is about getting sexual, and being sexually
confident, and that is what we are going to do.
8pm – 9:30pm
Breaktime…gotta prepare for the night ahead…we will be tired!
9:30pm – 10:30pm
Hired Guns
We are going to continue on our road to working the staff. To me
Hired Guns are hotter than most Club girls and they are the true
keys to the club. I don’t know anyone who teaches other than me
that can get his workshop comp’d drinks all night long. I do that
every workshop in Austin, all through the same stuff I am going to
be showing you.
10:30pm – 12:30am
Sitting back
We have been approaching for a few days at this point, we’re gonna
be tired. So what we gotta do is something that is more effective.
We are going to play some old school Dallas game where we just
hangout and you will see the fine art of getting women to approach
you. Kinda a hard thing to explain, but you’ll get it.
12:30am – 2am
Logistics
This is that final 90mins guys…time to really push it hard.
With the tools that you will have at this point pressing for your
goals is key. Maybe that’s getting laid, maybe that’s deep
comfort, at this point I want you to give it all you got, and you
will have me there pushing you.
This is a ton of infield time, but if you want to learn in the
same ways my Previous Clients have learned then this is how you
have to do it
Total Immersion!
Total Immersion Orlando is $647
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All my students have a short Clip where you can hear their experiences, and they also have an Interview with me. The Interviews are packed with their experiences and how they progressed from working with me.
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Counselor Chicago, IL Chicago Workshop Nov 2008 Amit – as with many of the people on this page – is a direct example of why I teach the way I teach. I met Amit at a Lair talk and he approached me afterward asking me if I could help him. He was wearing Sun Glasses and took them off telling me he had his eyes impaired as a child due to a rare Cancer. I immediately said, ‘you’re coming with me, you have no idea what a gift you have.’
He then went on to tell me that when he was at a young age his father had passed away and was raised without a father. He had to help constantly with his mother and younger brother. He entered the PUA/Dating Community to look at some techniques that would help him meet and attract the right women in his life. He tried all the information out there and really couldn’t get too much ground. He also told me that he was Brand New in the PUA scene and so I offered to take him out on one of my nights off. What I showed him was not how to be someone else, but how to empower himself and how to show who he is in the Best Possible way, to hide Nothing.
Within a Week Amit got Results. You will hear in his interview that he learned how to take his life – despite his adversities – was able to get better results than the guys who had nothing against him. That is how powerful theREDstack is. It makes your life – no matter what – work for you in amazing ways.
Here is his Testimonial
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Raj
Runs Tech business with family NYC, NY Mentor Program 2008, 1-on-1 2009 and Workshop 2009 Raj has been a long time friend as well as a long time student. A few years ago Raj contacted me about helping me out with some technical support. Raj is a wizard with technical stuff, websites, html, you know all that stuff that is like reading Chinese for me. A lot of people will offer me help, but there are very few who deliver. Raj Delivered and he Delivered big time! Ever since then Raj and I have built a Student/Teacher relationship that grows and grows. Often times he teaches me stuff, like uploading Audio and Video to the internet. One thing that Raj had always had trouble with was making his social circle work for him and mastering the cold approach. Raj loves Day Game, but wanted to learn everything while on his journey to meeting and attracting the women of his dreams. Raj also travels extensively and wanted to be able to meet and attract a woman instantly on his travels. Since we have started our work together Raj has done a series of phone consults with me, done a 1-on-1 in March of 2009 and also attended one of the Austin workshops in August of 2009. He was on one of the Legendary Workshops where, Zuzu and Von were at. Since then, they have all stayed in touch and built more and more of a network where guys can make progress and grow while having some of the best skills that can be taught.
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The California Pimp
Owner of www.netvideogirls.com California Friend and Pat-time Business Partner I can’t really call the California Pimp my student, because I actually learned from him. But I will say this, I have become really good friends with him and we have definitely learned from each other. I was actually a member of his site (www.netvideogirls.com) before I made it into the PUA scene. Once I got good with the skill set of meeting and attracting women, I looked up the Ca Pimp and we instantly became friends. He is someone who I trust with huge parts of my life as he is with me. The California Pimp has actually been someone who has influenced me in ways that no other Instructor in my field has. He was the first to tell me how getting better with women and having the knowledge to seduce will challenge cetian sides of you as a man. It will confront fears and put you onto a path of action. In any case, I am honored that with all the PUAs the Ca Pimp has met and known I am the only one that gets his endorsement.
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Here is my Interview with the California Pimp (28mins)
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Scotty from OTM
Owener of www.onthermat.com
Hermosa, Ca Owner of theREDstack Aug 2008
Scotty is another guy that it is hard to call a student, but at one time he was. When Alex and I were hanging out with Scotty in Las Vegas last year after Scotty had gotten theREDstack, Alex said, “Scotty is what every MPUA wishes he was”, and Alex is right. Scptty’s life is pretty much managing www.onthemat.com and living the life. You want to know how to cut the line in any club, go from being a no name guy to a pimp, meeting and almost instantly seducing models and ring girls, waitresses and bartenders - You need to do what Scotty did…
In any case, there is a reason why I wear his clothes (OTM Shirts) on my Videos, because he is a great guy and done a lot for me. Like I said it is had to call this guy a student, cause I have learned a TON from him, but for the most part he is a great friend.
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Here is the Interview with myself and Scotty (15mins)
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Alex
Mutual Fund Manager Las Vegas, NV Owner of theREDstack Nov 2007 and 1 – on – 1 Student Jan 2008 Alex is someone who has ended up living a life that every PUA back in the day wishes they lived. He has literally built a lifestyle that has, Money, Women, and Adventure all into one. This wasn’t always the life he lived in fact when he first moved to Las Vegas he took a workshop I happened to be volunteering on and he was far from the reality of part-time celebrity ladies man he is now. He was a guy that was just out of a relationship and didn’t know if he could have more. He got theREDstack and that taught him what to say, then he worked almost endlessly with me achieve one of the most advanced levels of PU that it truly transcended into something more. He now enjoys the nights that every man wishes for every night of the week.
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Here is the Interview with with Alex (36mins)
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Steve
Physician Oklahoma City, Ok Owner of theREDstack Feb 2008 and 1 – on – 1 Student March of 2008 Steve is also a good friend of mine who I have quite possibly learned more from than what I taught him. Steve and I bonded immediately on our life experiences being so similar. He was out of a relationship with his fiancé and really didn’t know where to turn. He looked around online and I feel very grateful that he found me.
What happened was he initially hired me for theREDstack, he got immediate results getting a Same Night Lay (SNL) within a few days of having it. He then hired me for some individual training and that is where things really took off. On his workshop he got another SNL on the second night of us going out. He has since managed to build a lifestyle that almost anyone would be envious of, he has a strong career, abundant women in his life and a true sense of wisdom and purpose that propels him. The fact that he credit me with a portion of this makes me very proud and honored to have him as one of my students. In many ways I look up to him.
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Here is my Interview with Steve (55mins)
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Dan B
Musician/Pro Poker Player
Vancouver Canada Ower of theREDstack Oct of 2007 and 1 – on -1 Student from Nov of 2008 This is a student I am really proud of on so many levels. Danny and I originally met online through the different Dating forums and Boards. He was one of the first recipients of theREDstack (he got one of the first 5 ever made). After achieve success with theREDstack he wanted to take things a step further and do a 1-on-1, this seems to be the best combination that people have the most success with. After the 1-on-1 there was a huge jump. Dan was able to get Same Night Lay (SNL) after Same Night Lay. In fact I even saw him get one in Vegas that took about 3 mins. It wasn’t long that Dan moved into the realm of so many of my Advanced Students where he realized that meeting and Attracting Women meant more than just racking up SNLs. He found that meeting and attracting women actually brought out more about him and thus started a new road to change. He talks about it in my interview with him.
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Here is my Interview with Dan (15mins)
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James
Physician Atlanta, Ga
Owner of theREDstack Oct 2008 He went from someone who had bought the bootcamp bought the ebooks was able to gain some ground but still was frustrated. He couldn’t get those numbers to stick, couldn’t gain heavy and instant attraction, and couldn’t hit hard in comfort. After theREDstack he started dating 4 girls at once, could walk into a Strip Club and get 10min number closes that stuck and even was able to pull girls out of the strip club and take them home that same night. Not only has it been a joy to have a student that got great results from me but James has also become a great friend, and he does one of the best impersonations of me.
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Hammer!
NYC NY
IT Technician
1-on-1 Student March of 2009
Hammer is a 23 year old young professional with a determined career ahead of him. He had a life changing experience a few years back that made him realize he had to live the life he wanted to live. He looked at a few people who could help him on this path (part of it meeting and attracting the best women in the world) and he hired me. On his workshop he got immediate results. We worked together for 3 dsays, on the second day he was able to pull a girl form the bar take her into the bathroom and the rest is history. He talked to her for 15mins prior to that. Aside from that Hammer was able to achieve new levels with his results even months later. He now says that he can literally talk to a girl for just a few mins and build a bond that is not just sexual but emotional as well.
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Here is my Interview with Hammer (19mins)
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Justin
Atlanta GA Dentist Owner of theREDstack March of 2008 also a 1-on-1 student July of 2008 Justin is someone who had found the Dating and Lifestyle community to not only get good with women but also to give back. He has gone on to teach and also help cultivate the Atlanta Lair (a forum for empowering men in Atlanta) but he started out by hiring me to take him to the next level. He got there, and he got there fast. On his workshop he leaned quick, pulling a Stripper form the club and taking him to his hotel, as well as pulling a girl he met at a restaurant into the parking lot…and the rest is history. Justin not only was quick with learning as a student in the sexual realm but has also take that tenacity working with others constantly. He has nurtured huge relationships with many women while lending a hand to the men around him looking for results. He is a perfect example of how many of my students have taken what they learned and mixed it with their own personal depth to be the ones who end up teaching me. He is a true honor to have as a student and in many ways I am a student of him.
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Brett
Chicago IL Student Workshop Student May 2009 and Phone consult Student May 2008 A few years ago Brett was on a mission to truly empower his life. He has always been someone who respected women and wanted to empower them by using his own life to bring that out of them. At first this can be hard when searching for a teacher to show you the right path in this, his search ended when he started working with Steve, first on the phone where Steve started customized parts of his life into huge Attraction and Comfort Pieces (the essence of theREDstack) and later her hired him to come to Chicago and work with him live and in field. After Brett’s workshop in Chicago that focused on gaining a Sexual Edge, Brett was able to escalate sexually with women in ways he had never dreamed of.
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Here is my Interview with Brett(19mins)
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Chris
Orlando Florida Student Owner of theREDstack April of 2008 Chris has ended up being one of my close friends in this business and has been an example of what true growth is. When I first talked to Chris he told me he was only 20 and had been running his own business for a few years. I was amazed at this. He had a few hardships that had come his way where he felt a bit isolated from the people around him. Chris was ready for change.
He will be the first to tell you that this wasn’t easy, but he will also tell you how much his working with Steve on multiple levels, not just theREDstack, but his interactions with Steve afterwards truly changed his life. Chris’ input and drive has also lead as an example of how to guide Steve’s business and how much untapped potential there could be in his working with students.
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Dan
Oklahoma City Technical Engineer Owner of theREDstack Oct of 2008 and Workshop Student Sept of 2009 Dan is someone who has been in the Dating and Lifestyle community for a while. He had seen what the other instructors had to offer and ended up going with Steve’s systems and finding great results. Dan is someone who had some huge strong points that were naturally build into his life. They were also things that most instructors would have told him to avoid. What we did was we took those technical aspects of Dan, and even his more serious side and give him a road map as to how to achieve success with that. Dan is someone who knows a lot of different approaches to the Dating and Lifestyle market so to hear what he has to say is really a compliment.
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Zuzu
Saleman Orlando, Florida Owner of theREDstack July of 2008 and Workshop Student Aug 2009 Zuzu is one of the Pick Up Artist (PUA) Community veterans he founded the Miami Lair and then took over the TOP Lair (Tampa and Orlando’s forum for meeting women) . We had initially met on the Forums and Boards talking about Dating, Meeting and Seducing women and it grew from there. He eventually saw so many of my students get amazing results from working with me, he had to jump on board. Zuzu is an interesting guy mainly cause of his humor and candor. With theREDstack he was able to get results almost immediately with his rigorous work schedule, he brought back stories with women he’d meet all over, some in Strip Clubs, and some in Bars. So he then took things to the next Level Hiring me for a weekend workshop. On his workshop he learned what I am so known for, how to connect almost instantly with someone who he finds attractive. I saw it and it was impressive even to me. Knowing Zuzu, he will take these things to new levels as he always does.
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Von
Engineer San Francisco, Ca Owner of theREDstack May 2009 and Workshop Student Aug 2009 Von is someone who everyone should look up to and one of those students where personal change almost seems limitless. His life started in India where he grew up in a small city and a very sheltered family. His education took him to the United States where he saw a different world. Unlike most people who become overloaded with the USA Von actually took the road to change very carefully and keeping to his own beliefs. When we met through the Pick Up Artist (PUA) Community I knew very little about him, but after he hired me for theREDstack I learned so much more about him and started really valuing the time I spent interacting with him. I have crashed on his coach and he has always been really hospitable to me, later we ended up working together more and he learned in his own way, mainly observing. But he took those tools back home and once applied he got fast results.
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Tony
Golf Instructor
Dallas TX
Workshop Student July 2009
Tony has ended up becoming a Great Friend of mine. One thing I like about tony is that he knows what it is like to have to be the BEST. He is one of the top Golf Instructors in the United States. He came in contact with me wondering whether or not this ‘game’ stuff could get him the women he really wanted in his life. He actually had a good flow of women that he interacted with but he wasn’t able to attract the one that he really wanted. Since he lives close, I go out with him quite a bit, and he has seen the light in many ways, now not only meeting the women he likes, but also moving further down that road of personal excellence.
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“No matter what level you’re at right now, Steve El Topo – He’s your man…”
Nektar-Orlando, Fl 2008
There are a couple of things I wanted to add here, since I have worked with el topo in the past. First, his advice on attraction is among the best – if not THE BEST – in the community. Second, as most of us are aware, qualification and comfort are absolutely critical; and el topo is without a doubt the best instructor out there in this area of the game. Finally, the subtleties of communication (body language, tonality, etc) are the most important aspects of communication in terms of building attraction, creating an emotional connection, as well as beginning the seduction process. Again, el topo is widely recognized as the best instructor out there in this regard.
Frankly, his blog speaks for itself, and there is a lot of very useful, FREE information on it.
Back in late January, I took a bootcamp with el topo. As part of the bootcamp, I received a routine stack, and I have to admit that the attraction material in there was exceptional. In addition, the same night lay frames, identity grounding material, cold reads, and qualification material were phenomenal. Bottom line, this stuff transformed my game…AND GOT ME LAID. More importantly, it gave me the material to create any type of relationship, whether it was a one night stand (I’ve had a number of them since my training with el topo) or a long term relationship (I’m currently in a great LTR right now).
I really think that one of the most important aspects of el topo’s attraction game is not what he says, but rather HOW he says it. The advice he gave me on body language, facial expressions, and tonality was priceless. In fact, I build as much attraction based off of my body language, kino, tonality and facial expressions, as I do with my routines (if not more). This advice alone is worth well in excess of the price of the seminar.
In all honesty, el topo equips his students with the skillset to run both structured game and natural game. I ran structured game for awhile, but this has morphed into natural game, based off of the underlying principles of attraction, qualification/comfort, and seduction I learned from my seminar with el topo.
The bottom line is that this crew includes some of the best instructors in the pick up community, and I highly recommend their seminars.
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