Express themselves. Embrace vulnerability

Yes! This is a perfect description in a nut shell of the human condition. If we could just have like a Geneva Convention or something to erase all the fucked up rules!

“Every man and woman I know and talk to all want to be desired. They all want people to be attracted to them. Every woman I know wants to be hot, every woman I know wants the ability to arouse a man and every woman I know doesn’t want to be hit on poorly by a man.”

“She wants to her sexuality to be respected but what does she put out there to be respected. A girl with no personality demanding her personality to be respected because her frustrated friends that get walked on by men said so. The sad thing is neither women nor men do enough to be respected.”

You know people want a lot of things. But very few will do anything about those desires. If they want to be desired physically or be hot do they get off their fat ass and work out? Or quit eating loads of crap? How about actually doing things to educate themselves or developing a personality instead of letting the T.V. be their personality? Why are reality shows so popular? Because people have become so lazy that they even want to live their lives virtually and let the TV do it for them.

At the risk of sounding misogynistic, I think this is much more prevalent with women. All most of them really know about sex is what they see in the movies or read in Cosmo. Also, they (at least the ones out in bars and clubs) seem to have lost their social skills. They are unable to tell if a man is hitting on them or just being social / polite. They are unable to carry on a conversation with a man because they have no experience doing so. With the exception of strippers, most women really don’t know how to talk to a man socially. Most of their interactions with men socially are now done through text messaging and online dating. Because the majority of their social experience comes from the media (TV and movies), their expectation is when they go out to a bar and a man approaches it is supposed to be like in the romantic comedy movies. The only trouble is that in those movies, the women is actually attractive and can carry on a flirtatious banter. I rarely find this combination out in the wild anymore. What I do find more and more are unattractive women, with substandard personalities with extremely high expectations of what type of man they can attract. When those expectations aren’t met they become bitter and even more unattractive. As bad as the seduction community is at least it is a demonstration that men are doing something to improve themselves socially. Doing something is better than doing nothing. I see no such effort from the female community. They need to fix the problem from their side as well. Steve, your post has hit the nail right on the head. Too bad no women will likely ever read it!

But for an all around guy, he should be able to do it all and demo it all. Document his relationships and how he kept them good. I like what Munichhawk said to.