100% Infield
Model real life interactions, showing Seduction
Customize everything towards you

Here’s the Schedule for Total Immersion Orlando

5pm – 7pm
Restaurant
Waitresses and Hired Guns – We begin with a healthy feast and hot
waitresses.
We will go over our goals and immediately start implementing some
of the exercises I assign you.

7pm – 8:00pm
We hit the streets to continue on with the assignments I give you
you.  Your assignments will all have to do with you interacting
with women…women that you’re attracted to.

8:00pm – 930
Breaktime
I don’t want much here, but you get 90mins to refresh, rest your
head and get ready for the night.

9:30pm – 10:30pm
Keys to the Club
We hit the scene.  Now some people teach social proof as something
where you learn to be ‘cool’ in the club for one night – I teach it
so that venue works for you.  Whether you are at a cafe, your
favorite diner, or your city’s premiere club you should have that
place work for you.   What you’re going to be cultivating from
9pm-10:30pm is just that.
This will set the stage for us all weekend.

10:30pm – 12:30am
Approach – Body Language
This is time to Approach, most people’s workshops emphasize this
time only…and they don’t even do it right.  In this time we will
go over the body language and the social structure of a group (not
your typical ‘group theory’, but through specific techniques you
will learn how to make a group of girls comply with you
immediately).  As everyone tells me, my form of Body Language will
redefine how you interact with people.  This will be the most
explosive stuff you learn.

12:30am – 2am
Escalation
Because this is the first night we will be taking baby steps here.
But the reason why i have 1 in 3 of my clients get laid on my
workshops is because of how I approach Logistics.  In total
Immersion we will take this window of opportunity and maximize it.
We will begin our long road to escalation.

Saturday July 24

Goals
- Get Sexual in our encounters within 10mins
-Execute our Seduction Body Language in both Day and Night

5pm – 7pm
Restaurant/Social Proof
As we fill up for another long night we talk to some of Orlando’s
finest.  Waitresses and bartenders.  However this time we will mix
in some of our previous night’s training in getting to know the
staff and take it to a new level here.  Where we eat is going to be
one of the clubs we hit later.  In Total Immersion Orlando you will
learn to go from being an average Joe to a Pimp within the venues
we go to.

7pm – 8:00pm
We hit the Streets!  We take our Dinner Assignments and we talk to
the women in Orlando live out there infield.  Believe me I take a
different approach to this.  I am not going to tell you to run down
girls on the street, but I am going to tell you how to get yourself
in a situation where you can control it and Seduce.

8:00pm – 930pm
Breaktime
I don’t want much here, but you get 90mins to refresh, rest your
head and get ready for the night.
9:30pm -10:30pm
Hired Guns
Since we should have some amount of momentum here, we are going to
take our Social Proof we have cultivated and turn it on the Hired
Guns.  This mean you will be back on the Bartenders and Waitresses
within the Venues we will be at.   You guys are going to be getting
comp’d drinks and cutting lines at the end of the night.

10:30pm – 12:30pm
Approach – Playful and Sexual
Here we are going to up the anti here.  You are gonna be doing your
Approaches here, but using Body Language techniques you are going
to be getting Sexual.  This will be fun and you’re going to shine
here.  You will see and feel how good it can be to be playful,
flirty and down right sexy.  This is one of the biggest gifts I can
give you guys out there, learning what it is like to feel sexual.

12:30am – 2am
Escalation and Logistics
I don’t take it easy on guys that want to improve their lives.  If
you take this seriously then you need to push yourself.  During the
witching hour here we are going to push for the close.   If you’re
on this workshop sexuality will be exuding from you at this point,
now you have got to learn how to guide it and control it.
Escalating and working logistics will be what you focus on.

Sunday July 25th
Goals -
- No problems with showing sexuality in any interaction
Building your road map

5pm – 7pm
Restaurant
This is going to get interesting.  We are going to build your road
map with the help of not only myself, but with the women you
interact with.  Your assignment will be to do just that.  We are
going to talk to women we are going to get sexual and we are going
to learn from them

7pm – 8pm
Hit the Streets
We are going to continue in Downtown Orlando on our assignment.
Remember this workshop is about getting sexual, and being sexually
confident, and that is what we are going to do.

8pm – 9:30pm
Breaktime…gotta prepare for the night ahead…we will be tired!

9:30pm – 10:30pm
Hired Guns
We are going to continue on our road to working the staff.  To me
Hired Guns are hotter than most Club girls and they are the true
keys to the club.  I don’t know anyone who teaches other than me
that can get his workshop comp’d drinks all night long.  I do that
every workshop in Austin, all through the same stuff I am going to
be showing you.

10:30pm – 12:30am
Sitting back
We have been approaching for a few days at this point, we’re gonna
be tired.  So what we gotta do is something that is more effective.
We are going to play some old school Dallas game where we just
hangout and you will see the fine art of getting women to approach
you.  Kinda a hard thing to explain, but you’ll get it.

12:30am – 2am
Logistics
This is that final 90mins guys…time to really push it hard.
With the tools that you will have at this point pressing for your
goals is key.  Maybe that’s getting laid, maybe that’s deep
comfort, at this point I want you to give it all you got, and you
will have me there pushing you.

This is a ton of infield time, but if you want to learn in the
same ways my Previous Clients have learned then this is how you
have to do it
Total Immersion!

Total Immersion Orlando is $647

Total Immersion Workshops

This video is good guy…some Previews of Cool Stuff at the end

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Orlando July 23-25th $647

(the21convention Special)

ONLY 2 Spaces left! (just sold one before the Video went up)

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Austin August 13-15th $847

(limited to 5 guys)

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Free 30min Waitress Pull Audio

If you want to hear why Total Immersion is the way to Learn,

go CLICK HERE and download me Pulling a Waitress while on a workshop to a Strip Club and Seducing her within the Club.

Download the 30min Audio HERE

Need more proof?

You can listen to my interviews and reviews from my clients HERE

What is Total Immersion?

Total Immersion means you are learning purely from interactions.  When on a workshop all teaching is done infield interacting with women.   We take this to a new level, bot only interacting and experiencing, but constructing our road map of development based on what we learn from interacting infield with women.   You can’t learn Seduction from a book, but you can from Seducing…

There are 3 Key Components of Total Immersion that makes it more effective than anything else out there…

1) 100% Infield

2) Modeling

3) Customization

- 100% Infield -

We learn 100% infield.  No need for a classroom, we learn and we execute right then and there!

How can Seduction be taught in a Classroom or a book, you need to speak the language of Seduction and Experience.

This is why I have never offered a lone product.  Everything I offer has a service component.    In reality all you need to make a breakthrough is 2-5 properly executed interactions.  You don’t need 1000 approaches, but if you only read books and download products then you just might.

- Modeling -

If you work with me you will see me Seduce.  You will see me do it within mins of an interaction.  Although i have attached a piece of Audio, to see it is something else.

The best way to learn is via experience.  You need to see a technique done properly, believe it is possible, see how easy it isto do and then do it yourself.

From there we can plan your map even further.

Theory, Books, Structures are all great but without Modeling and Experience then you will be stuck in that Circle of Frustration.

- Customization -

To this day I am the only guy that offers a Customized Approach.  When I say custom I am not just saying giving you some feedback directed at you, I mean giving you a completely tailored approach.

I give you a wealth of Customized

-Routines

-Body Language Techniques

-Strategy

-Logistics

this means you can develop into being yourself.  this is how 4 years after guys have worked with me they still will use my material.  It grows with you.

You can only fake it for so long.

Still to this day I don’t understand how people will spend good money on a guy that will not adapt that person’s life to to them.  I work for my clients.   I have never wanted to have a product that developed consumers, I wanted valued customers who had real life change.

PROOF is where the pudding is…

Listen to my Client’s stories and reviews HERE

I know in the Video it says 3 Slots Open, but Orlando has just 2 left now.

Sign up for Orlando July 23-25th

at the low price of $647

and

Sign up for Austin August 13-15th

for $847 HERE

3 days and nights infield!

Be part of the Total Immersion

Thanks

Steve

On the Road to the 21 Convention Video 3

#1 I want you to go to the21convnetion Orlando 2010!

Sign up for it HERE!

http://the21convention.eventbrite.com/

#2 I want you to take a Proactive stance in your life and do one of my workshops!

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(1 ) Orlando Workshop

Setting – 3 Days and 3 Nights infield in Orlando Florida

July 23-25 – During the21convnetion

$647

Format

Day Game and Night Game

This is not your typical workshop, this is meeting people my way, as well as being completely customized to you. That mean I work with you directly. Together we come up with a plan of action for you as well as execute it right then and there. I will show you new and effective ways to Meet, Connect, and Seduce women in the Day and Night, in multiple settings.

I am limiting this group to 5 Guys.

This is a Special Price for the21convention in Orlando Florida.

I can definitely tell you that this will be the Cheapest Price you’ll see from me on a 3 Day Workshop.

Sign up, cause it will sell out.
Orlando Workshop – July 23-25
$647

Format

Day Game and Night Game

You will learn to meet women, my way. The way that works. Meet, Connect, and Seduce women in the Day and Night, in multiple settings.

Austin has some of the best women in the world and nobody knows them as well as me. From Clubs to Lounges, Waitresses to Strippers, I got Austin Down! Come live it up with me for 3 days. I will take you further than you have ever imagined you could go.

I am limiting this group to 5 Guys.

This is a special Summer Price so sign up, Trust me, in Austin you’ll have a blast .

This is one cheap price for a 3 day workshop.

Sign up asap, it will sell out.

Austin Aug 13, 14, 15

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(3 ) Six Week Attract and Seduce Program

$497

This program is designed so that you can be anywhere, anytime and meet, attract and seduce the women you want, while being yourself.

2 Course Dates

July 26 – Aug 31 Course

August 23 – Sept 27 Course

Format -

Completely interactive online course.
If you have worked with me before this is different. This will make your communication with women turn into a Sexual Connection overdrive. This course is solid and I work it with you, to achieve the exact goals you need.

This means I work the program with you. Just because we are online doesn’t mean I won’t give you my all. If you put it in, I will dish it out.

- 4 PDF Lesson Plans for you and I to follow along together

- All access biweekly Private Phone Consults

- 6 Group Conference Calls, breaking down the lessons

- Also Weekly Audio Updates

You basically get the raw no nonsense infield audio of me that week.

Over the 6 Week Course you’ll get over 10 hours of Infield Audio.

The best part about it is that this is not Audio from months ago, it is audio recorded that very week, doing the exact things we are working on.

The People that work this program get results, hands down. I don’t care who you are, or what your problems are, you will get results cause I am working the program with you. You’ll never be alone.

New Video – Reshaping your Beliefs – Becoming the Seducer

Probably best if I keep the pissed-off-ness to the email list

(1 ) Six Week Attract and Seduce Program

$497

This program is designed so that you can be anywhere, anytime and meet, attract and seduce the women you want, while being yourself.

2 Course Dates

July 26 – Aug 31 Course

August 23 – Sept 27 Course

Format -

Completely interactive online course.
If you have worked with me before this is different. This will make your communication with women turn into a Sexual Connection overdrive. This course is solid and I work it with you, to achieve the exact goals you need.

This means I work the program with you.  Just because we are online doesn’t mean I won’t give you my all.  If you put it in, I will dish it out.

- 4 PDF Lesson Plans for you and I to follow along together

- All access biweekly Private Phone Consults

- 6 Group Conference Calls, breaking down the lessons

- Also Weekly Audio Updates

You basically get the raw no nonsense infield audio of me that week.

Over the 6 Week Course you’ll get over 10 hours of Infield Audio.

The best part about it is that this is not Audio from months ago, it is audio recorded that very week, doing the exact things we are working on.

The People that work this program get results, hands down.  I don’t care who you are, or what your problems are, you will get results cause I am working the program with you.  You’ll never be alone.

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(2 ) Orlando Workshop

Setting – 3 Days and 3 Nights infield in Orlando Florida

July 23-25 – During the21convnetion

$647

Format

Day Game and Night Game

This is not your typical workshop, this is meeting people my way, as well as being completely customized to you.   That mean I work with you directly.  Together we come up with a plan of action for you as well as execute it right then and there. I will show you new and effective ways to Meet, Connect, and Seduce women in the Day and Night, in multiple settings.

I am limiting this group to 5 Guys.

This is a Special Price for the21convention in Orlando Florida.

I can definitely tell you that this will be the Cheapest Price you’ll see from me on a 3 Day Workshop.

Sign up, cause it will sell out.
Orlando Workshop – July 23-25
$647

Format

Day Game and Night Game

You will learn to meet women, my way.  The way that works.   Meet, Connect, and Seduce women in the Day and Night, in multiple settings.

Austin has some of the best women in the world and nobody knows them as well as me.  From Clubs to Lounges, Waitresses to Strippers, I got Austin Down!  Come live it up with me for 3 days.  I will take you further than you have ever imagined you could go.

I am limiting this group to 5 Guys.

This is a special Summer Price so sign up, Trust me, in Austin you’ll have a blast .

This is one cheap price for a 3 day workshop.

Sign up asap, it will sell out.

Austin Aug 13, 14, 15

the Road to the 21 Convention

Video Series –

Alright guys,

This is one of the Videos promoting the Road to the Orlando Convention.

To keep this short, if you’re a guy that wants to –

-       Get better women in your life

-       Get better at Sex and Relationship

-       Hang with some of the world’s leading experts on Women, Money and Fitness

Then you will want to be at the21conventio in Orlando July 22nd-25^th

If you want a few bones off your ticket price,

Go to – http://the21convention.eventbrite.com/

And under Discount Code use ‘eltopo20’ and you will get my sales commission towards your ticket.

The convention is an entire experience.  There is such a diversity of speakers and topics your life will no doubt get better from attending.

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Now for the Video…

In living the Sexual Life, people need to realize first sex is already there, the less you do the better.

Socializing is part of sex.  Socializing is part of sex and the beginning of sex.

Over and over people preach that Sex and Socializing are separate from each other.  When they talk to a girl they think they have to have a series of steps to cover before sexuality starts.   When you approach a woman sexuality begins.

For the past 6 months I have been working with some new material that takes a different approach to how to meet women.

I wanted to start reshaping men and women’s belief on how they communicated sexually.

If you want to get better at talking to women let alone start having the sexual experiences you have always wanted, you need to be able to start making changes based on your beliefs.

The fundamental difference in what I am doing to get these results has 2 unique differences -

1)   Your Beliefs

2)   Active socialization

In this exercise I am going over has 2 components.

You will need to –

1)   Ask women what you want to know about them

2)   Bring up something that you are uncomfortable about

Now I can’t give everything away on my blog, in fact the more I do that the less people actually try the things I write about….

But for those of you who do really follow my stuff, go out there are spend a week doing the exercise I am talking about above.

The goal of the exercise is to really start asking women that you are attracted to what you wonder about.  You want them to really answer.  No stupid pick up stuff before hand, just start asking them.   Make hitting on the less of a priority than getting a real answer out of them.  Also you should bring up one thing you’re uncomfortable about.  Ask them if that thing could be seen as attractive.

The guys in my Mastermind Group or the Group in Austin have it easy cause they have audio of my doing this or they get to see me do it live all the time.

Their result has been they are phenomenally more confident in going for what they want.  Your beliefs are necessary for attaining the goals you want with women.

When it comes down to it, Seduction is more about exchanging than taking.

Socializing is often seen as something separate than sex, the two are one in the same.

Once you can start to believe that sexuality is a fundamental of human interaction then the road to sex will not have so many crazy turns to it.  You will see it has more to do with setting someone free then trying to trick them into something.

Sexuality has less to do with having sex with someone’s reactions or fears than it does with connecting with them.

In this exercise we are learning to sexually connect with women we are attracted to immediately.   Our social experience is the beginning to our sexual experience.

Go to the21convention Orlando.

Use my discount code.

And Be Sexual

Thanks

Steve Mayeda

Enjoy this Video – A Promo for the21convention –

With Jason Savage and I…good stuff

To buy tickets for the21convention
go to -
http://www.the21convention.com/attend-2010/

YOU SHOULD GO!

Hang with us in Orlando

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I can’t emphasize enough how much the PUA scene has got to change.

I really hope there is a future where there are guys that can come fulfill themselves with learning how to be men.

The corny crap that we have been trying to become has screwed a lot of stuff up.
In fact you see the stress the anger and the self-hate that this superficial life of the PUA world has promoted.

The other night I was fortunate enough to catch Jason Savage’s speech that he will be giving in Sweden in a few days.

If you are in Europe, go to the event. It will be the best speech you have ever seen and he articulate this difference

There is a big difference with someone who is good with women, a seducer, a man…

Than someone who is a PUA. We gotta put down the BS and start learning to be men that can be Proud to be Sexual and communicate.
The more the community hide behind anything the more it will eat its own tail…

What’s your goal?

Be the Seducer

Live the Sexual Life!

Leave Your Comments tell me what you think.

To buy tickets for the21convention
go to -
http://www.the21convention.com/attend-2010/

Use the discount code – ‘eltopo20′ and get my money donated towards your ticket!

Now many of you may not personally know me, but those of you who do know I have completely pushed the envelope on this one.

For instance most PUAs say they are masters of Strippers, or had Multiple Long Term Relationships and so on…the reality is they suck at those things.

So what the hell would prove a guy is legit?

Would it be the result of screwing a bunch of chicks or having a good life?

I really want to know what you think.

You can email me, but better yet leave a comment.

You gotta let me know what you think of this haircut!

I am sitting at a Barber Shop in ATX with my friend Steven.

It is a 45 min wait…lets see what I can write.

In fact I have had this idea in my head ever since talking to my friend Sean the other night on the phone.  He was telling me about women and I thought… ‘man, I gotta write about this’.

Now Steven and my Haircut journey is going to have to get the brunt of this article.

Steven is not a PUA, Dating or Seduction follower, nor does he want to be.

When I tell people what I do for work they are always flabbergasted as to what I do.  They never can wrap their head around it.

Steven is a pretty honest man, and he has often times asked me for some pointers here and there.  When giving advice to a guy outside of the whole Dating/PUA realm you realize how alien the baseline techniques are.

In fact you miss so much when you mold your mind to typical Dating Techniques.

In fact you completely fuck yourself.   Yes they work as a mechanic, but they don’t really work beyond that.

One of the reasons why typical dating advice sucks is because its root is to be dishonest.  The root is of it is to throw away yourself and mimic someone you might think is cool.    Let’s hope your perception is good…

Or perhaps I should put it better…you need to be willing to be dishonest in order to use the techniques.

My Advice to Steven was based around the idea of Honesty….the forgotten tool.

You see professional Dating/Seduction advice givers are really obsessed with looking good.  They want every aspect of their life to fit what is ‘cool’ or what other people might think is attractive.

However I have quite a flavored social circle and have known guys who are good with women (really good with women) who have nothing.  In fact they are –what some might consider – losers.

I have always been more interested in a guy who gets results, especially with women, who has the disadvantages rather than the (usually false) advantages…

Whatever those guys are doing is what I want to be doing.

You take a guy who has no job or a crappy job, no money, no car, takes the bus and doesn’t really shower too often and what makes women want him???

It is cause that guy…that ‘loser’ -

is honest about his life and honest about what he wants.

Here is where the info you have read out there is completely wrong.

People always have said women are attracted to ‘Value’.  This meaning a ‘Social Value’.

In reality ‘Social’ ‘Provisional’ and ‘Emotional’ Value have more to do with attracting a relationship.  In fact there are actual studies by real academics that have discovered this.  Read David Buss’ books.  I got the opportunity to speak with him in Texas.  It makes sense though.

Women who see ‘value’ are attracted to you in more of a relationship than a sexual urge.

Women who are attracted to urges or sexuality only need sex to be allowed.

Women are attracted to both…and probably more, so what you show them is what is important.

What you have, or who you know, attracts a woman in less of a sexual way and more of a relationship way.    She felt safety first, and was drawn in be the potential for having a mate.   What is great about the PUA industry especially, is that they got good at faking a lifestyle, but nobody really got good at having one.

Things that Sexually Attracted were different, and independent of ‘Value’.  For a woman to feel ‘Sexually Attracted’ to you she didn’t need much.  She needed maybe some intent and an option for her to choose than anything’s else…

An example of that might be…

“You’re really attractive, but I still want to talk to you and not freak you out…what do you do when you’re not hanging out with your friends?”

The  “You’re really attractive” part is the Intent

The “but I still want to talk to you and not freak you out” has her be led out of the threat…

and

The “what do you do when you’re not hanging out with your friends” part allows her a choice to have a conversation with you or not.

That mix of Intent and Choice is what makes attraction happen.  Now that example is pretty direct and unique, but it you opened with that, you would harvest better results than if you went through all this fake mumbo jumbo stuff.

How this fits into the Honesty thing is that getting better at stating Intent (what you want) is honest.  Also being able to Show yourself for ‘who’ you are is also honest.

Those are both attractive things…even ‘alpha’ things.

What the Dating Gurus never got was that if you show Intent it is attractive –

If you are not afraid to show who you are, that is attractive.

They might have said those things, but then they would say they are not accountants (or whatever job or persona they felt they were ashamed of) and said they were something else different.

When you think about it, it is not really anyone’s fault either…but it is not the solution.

When you look at the ‘hot woman’ crowd they do all this fake shit to compete to get men’s attention.  They might wear tons of make-up, they might get fake boobs, might wear a push up bra, who knows what else…

Where guys have fucked up is they forget that if they could learn to not be afraid of themselves and assert themselves they would actually get women.

If they could learn a simple mechanic like…

-Show intent

-State who you are

-Define the situation

they would get much further.  What is frustrating for me is that there are guys out there that have such rich lives that they think they can’t share.

For instance my buddy Sean, who inspired this topic,  he has raised his son by himself and worked a normal, no non-sense job for most of his life.  He has never really had problems with women, but what is important is that he was never ashamed of himself.

If you put his life within the PUA/Dating filter the cons would out weight the pros.

Without writing too much about his personal life I can say that he has never really had all the exaggerations that the dating scene said you had to have to meet women.

In fact he would have things they would encourage to hide.

In knowing Sean he never did.  He wasn’t ashamed of himself.

He had no problem telling a girl he liked her…

He had no problem telling a girl who he was

and

He had no problem guiding a girl in the right direction.

The problem is the Seduction, PUA, and Dating scene got it wrong.

You can be yourself, but you have got to be willing to be honest.

You don’t need to hid from yourself.

You don’t need to be ashamed of yourself

You need to worry less about what you think ‘they’ think is attractive

and

Worry more about what you are going to show them is attractive.

What a friend of mine once told me in a old diner was if you want to get rich in America then sell –

-Sex to men

-Being skinny to women

-Start a religion

-And tell bald men how to grow hair

What is crazy is everyone has been buying sex, we are a culture of commodities and rather than seeing sex as anything normal we see it as a commodity.

What my experience has been in the Dating and Seduction industry is that men are willing to sell who they are and what they are to gain attention from women.  However what you are sold is not ‘attention’ it is sex and validation.

It is not anything that I can really pass judgment on because it is the reality of our culture…but that is how far gone we are.

Men who have accomplished their life goals are willing to listen to an empty culture for direction.   The pride in being a man has nothing to do with doing what you want, but fitting in…that is sad.

How we were all sold on this idea is that we were sold on this idea is because this culture has a deficit of openness and honesty.  Things like socializing and sex are only seen as exaggerations or shame.

An example of this in a Social Life would be

seen in most Dating and Seduction advice revolving around superficialities.  When you look at what they are selling it has more to do with showing a front or ‘owning the club’ or holding some sort of ‘artificial value’.  You need to buy into what society says is ‘cool’ as your first step in attracting women.

This is the least ‘Alpha’ thing you can do.

This is what I mean as an exaggeration of Social behavior.

A shame of social behavior would be the hiding of ‘you ‘in order to gain attention.   It is the lack of honesty in showing who you are.    There is no room for a sense of self in our culture.

An example of this in the Sexual Life would be

seen slightly in the Dating in Seduction community, but more so in the polarity of pornography and sexual honesty.    Sex is seen as something that has no real definition in our culture.    No one will talk about it, but everybody wants to be a part of it.  When asking women and men what good sex is, they are somewhat clueless.  They might have a definition based on their experiences but none based on interaction with people.  Sadly sex is defined by pornography.  I got nothing wrong with pornography.  I watch porn.  But the problem is when porn starts to define people’s perspectives on sexuality we have a complete misunderstanding of it.  Many guys search out the Dating and Seduction industry to help, but people’s views on Sex and Sexuality within that community are almost non-existent.   Sadly any sort of real sexual connection or sexual honest is held back and kept secret.  We see our natural sexuality as a shame or something to hide.

Instead of being a group or culture of men that know what we want we have cultivated a culture or extremes and dishonesty.

Think about it…what has been offered to you?  What is it you want?

If you want to generate some social skills and get some attention there are plenty of outlets for that.   That is what all those PUA, Dating and Seduction guys are offering.

However where can you go after that?

Is there anything being offered after that?

It is interesting, there are a few books that have dramatically influenced my life.   One of them is always referenced in Seduction material.  And the people who reference the book missed the depth of the book.   I read the book about 10 years ago and it is called The Selfish Gene by Richard Dawkins, another book that illustrates the point I am making here is Ishmael by Daniel Quinn.

Guys in the Seduction Industry reference The Selfish Gene to give them some pseudo intellectual meaning to their theories.  However one of the key points to that book, and there are so many, is that once a population is allowed to reach a certain volume specific characteristics happen.  Things start to get tense.  New social rules must be established.  Also ideas spread within societies that almost can’t get shaken from the our mentality.

Why this is so important is because one thing that happens to a Culture when there are too many people in it is they become less social.

Things that are normal become abnormal.

Things like sex and socializing are some of the most fundamental aspects of humanity and in order to take part in them we have to do all this crazy shit.  When it comes to being a man, or being a woman, you need to do less than do more.

The answers that have been given to you in the Dating world are absurd.

In order to socialize, be sexy, feel sexy you don’t need to talk louder, roll your shoulders back, wear a bunch of crap, get a fake tan and frost your hair…you need to get closer to being a human.

You need to get ok with liking sex, and wanting sex.  You need to get ok with the idea of expressing it.

You need to learn to appreciate your own sexuality.  You need to not be afraid of it…

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Here’s the thing ladies, (whoops — I meant MEN):

Women want to be turned out.

I’ll say it (or write it) again. (A-hem):

WOMEN WANT TO BE TURNED OUT.

*Yes, I did it. I slipped and said it.
This is the big bad secret. Now the cat’s outta the bag and the pussy fell onto the floor.

Whether women know it or not (some know it more than others), they WANT that romp in the hay. Although this is TRUTH, let me further peel back the banana.

You see, it’s not a news flash that once a woman expresses herself sexually, most times she is met with the brand of a Scarlet Letter. She is slutified – whorefied, (Cunt faced, Jiz bagged, Floozy fucked), you get the picture.

But before you get all WTF on me, this blog isn’t a rant to get you guys to feel bad for those of us who have to bleed once a month, (although you SHOULD go and hug your mother after reading this).

What I want for YOU all to get from this is that — this is good news for you! Isn’t it? Isn’t it awesome to know that women REALLY want it just as much as you do?!

Oh my god. Let me continue…

You see this is the secret that Cassanova knew. Cassanova, like many successful SEDUCERS (not ‘pick up’), understood this very, very fundamental reality about women. So, sometimes getting back to the basics is what’s necessary.

So, recap so far:

Women Want IT.
Women get ’slutified’ for it.

Hum, how can we remedy this?

Drum roll:

How about asking yourself, “How can “I” (Tarzan) get Jane to get down and dirty in the banana leaves with me?”
I will respond to this question with another question:

“How can YOU (Tarzan) get Jane to feel emotionally, physically safe with YOU in order that will help her KNOW that she won’t be judged or shamed – therefore feeling GUILTY about asking you to slap her in the face with your man junk?”

You see gentlemen, THIS is the the secret ‘Kung Fu Penis’ ingredient. It’s so tiny (not the penis – the information), that it’s easy to pass up. It’s so miniscule that it’s like a whimpering whisper that’s hard to hear in the midst of all your caveman grunts.

Once a female feels secure enough to explore her sexuality with you, she will bloom upward toward you as if you were the spring sun himself. But you also have to sincerely mean it and find delight in her own uniqueness. Believe it or not, this ’sincerity’ will also IMPROVE your OWN sexual experiences 100 fold.

I started off this blog with this quote:

“I don’t conquer, I submit.”
Giacomo Casanova quote

I hate to potentially burst your bubbly balls but believing that ‘conquering’ a woman, like in pornography, is what will consistantly create great sexual experiences is nooooooooot really true.

If you REALLY want to become a better lover and give women what it is that they REALLY desire, then you must look toward “Giacomo Casanova” for your inspiration and not a short 10 minute, visual quip on YouPorn titled, “Big Bang Up Daisie’s Ass”.

I’m just saying that REAL seduction is not fast food pick up. REAL seduction is the AUTHENTIC understanding of what a woman REALLY wants and how YOU can inspire HER to make the choice HERSELF to say yes to you, over and over again.

Casanova valued intelligence in a woman: “After all, a beautiful woman without a mind of her own leaves her lover with no resource after he had physically enjoyed her charms.”
So, spit out your tobacco cowboy and replace it with some green, mint gum and chew on that, sir.
Your palette is about to evolve. …